The advent of the social age came with many opportunities to connect with others, exchange ideas, and keep up with the people in our lives. But while social media platforms can do much good, they also can potentially destroy a person's life, especially after accusations of inappropriate behavior circulate in school or college.

Regardless of the accuracy of these allegations, lashing out and trying to defend yourself online without the guidance of a legal professional is more than likely going to land you in hot water. Many people enjoy these dragging sessions. The news spreads like wildfire, exacerbating your situation, especially if you try to fight back.

So, what can you do when your reputation is at stake and people are talking about you negatively online? One impulsive response or action can do more damage than the allegation and cements a negative image of you in people's minds.

How to Decrease the Impact of Getting Dragged on Social Media

Always remain calm and think about the consequences of lashing out against others or responding to nasty comments about you online. Regardless of the allegation, you can take several steps to decrease the impact of the emotional and tangible damage dragging on social media has on you:

• Do Not Engage: Many people try to “push your buttons” to get a reaction from you. These may be people you know or strangers who sympathize with the accuser. Do not take the bait and refrain from responding to any allegation, whether in-person or online.
• Build Hedges around your Socials: Increase your privacy settings, remove connections with untrusted people, and then back away for a while. Discuss with your education attorney-advisor whether deletion is appropriate in your case.
• Avoid Illegal Actions: Now is not the time for a DUI or a harassment charge. You must be extra vigilant when your reputation and actions are under scrutiny, as anything can exacerbate your case further.
• Speak to a Trusted Person: Sometimes, people may threaten you with physical harm, or you may feel out of control or even suicidal. Don't hesitate to speak to a trusted person to protect your mental health if this is happening to you.
• Be Patient: Remember that people talk about the most recent event and quickly move on when something more interesting comes along.
• Contact an Attorney-Advisor: Attorney-Advisors know how to deal with the matter legally and help protect you from taking actions that worsen your situation.

Protect Yourself Legally

When your reputation is on the line and you face an onslaught of negative comments on social media, you need a shoulder to rely on to get you through the pain and embarrassment. It hits especially hard when you are innocent.

Attorney-Advisor Joseph D. Lento and the Lento Law Firm works with students nationwide who face allegations of inappropriate behavior. With their expertise and knowledge, you don't have to take on the weight of people's judgments alone. Many seek to tarnish your reputation without having the facts and ruin your graduation prospects.

If you face social media issues after allegations of improper behavior, call the Lento Law Firm today for a discreet consultation at 888-535-3686.